Tips on How to Approach a Girl You Like
Are you curious to know how to approach a girl you like without getting rejected? It becomes easier for men who have no experience when they understand the basics of macking and how women think. These techniques I’m about to discuss with you were formulated based on how girls behave and think.
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How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #1: Establish Social Value
If you want to secure your chance of talking to a girl, make sure you do this first step. You show off your personality and social clout first so you can build up massive amounts of attraction. In short, you have to show women characteristics of men that they find attractive. One way of doing this is by making sure your friends are enjoying your company; talking to bartenders and waitresses you know; say hi to people you know in the room.
How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #2: Don’t Let Your Attraction Be Obvious
If you show her that you’re downright interested from the get go, you lose the game. Have you noticed why players get to go home with the hottest chick in the bar? I’m not saying that you have to a jerk. Just let her know that hey maybe you can chat but if she’s not feeling it, you have no problem with it. If you’ve displayed your social value well, she would know that even she doesn’t talk to you, it’s not your loss. This is because she has witnessed how everybody loves your company and anyone would love to talk to you. Instead of being the pursuer, you just made yourself the prize.
You can do this by letting her know from the get go that you just wanted to say something and you’re not staying too long. Here’s a good example:
“Hey, I see that you’re having fun with your friends but I’m not staying long. I saw you a few minutes ago and I think you look gorgeous. So I thought I’d drop by and say Hi”.
She will smile and thank you for the compliment, do as you said and leave after which.
How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #3: Understanding Neutral and Flirt Openers
To understand neutral openers just think of it as the opposite of flirt openers. If you want to use neutral openers, you have to be observant and notice everything about the girl and then you can make comments, questions or compliments using such observations.
When you use neutral openers you give the girl an impression that you appreciate her and what she has to say about things. The objective is to make her talk more. Women love it when guys see them as someone of value rather than someone they can sleep with. If your intention is to actually sleep with her, just don’t make it too obvious. Otherwise, you’ll get dropped like a hot potato. Call it ritual if you want but women warm up to these tactics and these are your tickets to her bed or her heart, for the romantics.
Further, if you want to use flirt openers, make sure you’re sure of your game. If you’re positive that the girl is crazy about you, using flirt openers won’t be a problem. When you already know how to use flirt openers with ease and success, it’s safe to say that you’re already a rock star when it comes to macking.
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