Starting The Conversation: How To Approach Women
Attracting and approaching women is a tough thing to do. You have to gather up the confidence to walk up to a woman and introduce yourself, and then get her phone number. If the thought of randomly approaching women and striking up conversations makes you feel anxious, I understand that this process can be hard at first, and I’ve been there myself.
To have success with women, you first have to get one, and that starts with approaching them. I know that most guys are intimidated by the thought of approaching women, especially in public places. . If this is how you feel, then you should change your ways so that you can start having the success that you desire.
One thing that you can do to help out with approaching women is practice in the mirror. Talking to yourself in the mirror will allow you to see how you look and to build up the confidence you need to approach someone. If you can first be comfortable with yourself, then you will more than likely be comfortable with talking with a woman too.
I’m sure you’ve heard of men approaching women and seducing them instantly. I don’t recommend trying this as this is the fastest way to get a drink thrown into your face. But when you do approach a woman, you need to have no fear of rejection. Not being intimated of rejection is a skill that you need to develop, and you can begin by walking up to women and asking them a simple question.
For instance, you should practice walking up to women and asking them a genuine question. Your question could be if they know what time it is or if they know where the nearest McDonalds is. This will help you to get into the habit of naturally approaching women so when the time comes to ask a woman for her phone number, it won’t be as hard to do.
If you can learn how not to be afraid of rejection, then you increase your chances of having success with women by a long shot. When practicing what I suggested above, you should only practice walking up to beautiful women. Ask a woman where the nearest bank is or where the nearest grocery store is. You’d be amazed at the responses and some of these women will even start up conversations with you!
Learn How to Approach a Girl You Like
Are you curious to know how to approach a girl you like without getting rejected? For men who do not have a lot of experience when it comes to women, things can be a tad difficult but once you understand everything it becomes easier thereafter. These techniques I’m about to discuss with you were formulated based on how girls behave and think.
How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #1: Show Social Value
Contrary to popular belief, you don’t directly approach a girl you like and introduce yourself just like that. Showing off your personality, charisma and social clout can help you be noticed first and build up a huge amount of attraction. In short, you have to show off traits that women find attractive. One way of doing this is by making sure your friends are enjoying your company; greet bartenders and waitresses you know; saying hi and striking a conversation with friends and random people alike.
How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #2: Don’t Let Your Attraction Be Obvious
If you think that by being that nice guy and showering a girl with too much attention, you’re turning her on, you’ve been misinformed. This is the reason why players get laid easily than nice guys. Don’t be a jerk, I didn’t say that. What’s I’m saying is you give her an impression that you’re just saying hi and maybe you can talk, but if she’s doesn’t want to, you don’t really mind. If you’ve displayed your social value well, she would know that even she doesn’t talk to you, it’s not your loss. She has seen how you are with people and how everyone enjoys your company. So in this game, you make yourself the prize.
One way of doing this is by stating beforehand that you’re not going to take too much of her time. Here’s an excellent example:
“Hey, I know you’re having fun with your friends so I don’t want to take too much of your time. I saw you a while ago and I just thought you look stunning in that dress. So I thought I’d drop by and say Hi”.
She will smile and thank you for the compliment, do as you said and leave afterwhich.
How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #3: Understanding Neutral and Flirt Openers
Now for some specific approaches and openers…
To understand neutral openers just think of it as the opposite of flirt openers. If you want to use neutral openers, you have to be observant and notice everything about the girl and then you can make comments, questions or compliments using such observations.
When you use neutral openers you give the girl an impression that you appreciate her and what she has to say about things. The objective is for you to open up a conversation focused on her interests and make her talk. Women love it when guys see them as someone of value rather than someon they can sleep with. Don’t get me wrong, for some this might be their goal but the point is, you don’t make it obvious. Otherwise, she’ll just ignore you just like that. You may call it rituals if you must but fact is, women warm up easily using these steps and it becomes easier for you to get to her bed or her heart, if you’re a romantic.
Further, if you want to use flirt openers, make sure you’re sure of your game. If you’re sure she’s 100% into you, you can use flirt openers. When you already know how to use flirt openers with ease and success, it’s safe to say that you’re already a rockstar when it comes to macking.