How to Talk to a Girl
Knowing how to talk to a girl makes things easier for a man. A man finds it easier to ask a girl out and seduce her in the process. Have you ever asked yourself how some guys do it? You ever thought that maybe they were just born into it? Whatever the reasons are, the bottom line is, the skill of talking to a girl can be acquired. I’ll share with you what I’ve learned over the years:
How to Talk to a Girl Like a Player Would
How to Talk to a Girl Tip #1: Stay Away From Pick Up Lines
Sadly, pick up lines don’t work on girls anymore. And because it’s been used so many times, it makes them unoriginal and insincere. They would think that you just don’t have the intelligence to start a conversation. When you use a pick up line on a girl, she would know you’re just there for sex. Don’t be surprised if she ignores you.
How to Talk to a Girl Tip #2: Don’t Apologize For Talking to Her
It’s a given that you want to come out as a polite and decent man. But apologizing to a girl for talking to her demonstrates your lack of trust in yourself. High status men don’t apologize for talking to a girl. These people know their worth. Never surrender your authority over someone. You just have to change your perspective. You just have to believe that you’re fun and interesting and start a convo with her.
How to Talk to a Girl Tip #3: Conversation Openers
Avoid close-ended question. These are questions that are answerable by a yes or a no. It’s not a very effective tool if you want to talk to a girl since it doesn’t allow a smoothly flowing conversation. Some close-ended questions can be modified to become open-ended questions.
Neutral Openers. These are the opposite of close-ended questions. Neutral openers, in order to be successful, must be coupled with a rationale as to why the conversation began. You don’t have to apologize because you have a valid reason to talk to her plus she’s also compelled to talk back to you. At the same time, the reason also eliminates doubt that you only want to get into her pants. Here’s a great example of neutral openers:
“Hey, you’d probably know the answer to this—let me ask you because my friend Jen is coming to town next week and she’s in charge of her best friend’s bachelorette party. She needs to know a really fun place for them to have a girl’s night out. If you were in charge of the party, where would you bring everyone?”
Knowing how to talk to a girl demands skill and knowledge. I can supply you the information to improve your knowledge in this department. As for skill, you need to practice what you’ve learned to girls you meet that you find interesting. In fact, you can try these on your female friends and see how they react. These are just examples of some of the techniques on how to talk to a girl.
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