Can The Right Pick Up Lines Get You Laid?
A lot of guys think you’re supposed to use some kind of “cute pick up lines” when you try to talk to a girl.
Before I give you pick up lines to use on girls, I want to say that walking up to random women and trying to start conversations is a tough thing to do for most guys. I understand that. You have to gather up the confidence to walk up to a woman and introduce yourself, and then get her phone number. If the thought of randomly approaching women and striking up conversations makes you feel anxious, I understand that this process can be hard at first, and I’ve been there myself.
But the bottom line is, you’ve got to learn how to approach women if you’re going to expand your social life and elevate your dating life. I know that most guys are intimidated by the thought of approaching women, especially in public places. . If you feel nervous, shy or even hesitant to approach women, then I suggest you start learning some specific techniques to help you approach women without hesitation or fear.
What you ought to know is that your fear of rejection can be overcome, and it can be overcome simply and easily. If one of the reasons you’re scared of approaching women is the fact that things can go wrong, then guess what? That’s life, and things do go wrong! It doesn’t matter though. What matters is that you have the confidence and courage to walk up to that hottie, introduce yourself, and take a shot.
Practicing in the mirror, and performing some mental exercises, is one way to build up your confidence with approaching women. Talking to yourself in the mirror will allow you to see how you look and to build up the confidence you need to approach someone. If you can first be comfortable with yourself, then you will more than likely be comfortable with talking with a woman too.
Don’t bother listening to any “expert” who says it’s possible to seduce a woman within seconds of meeting her. I don’t recommend trying this as this is the fastest way to get a drink thrown into your face. But when you do approach a woman, you need to have no fear of rejection. Not being intimated of rejection is a skill that you need to develop, and you can begin by walking up to women and asking them a simple question.
For instance, you should practice walking up to women and asking them a sincere question. Your question could be if they know what time it is or if they know where the nearest Mcdonalds is. This will help you to get into the habit of naturally approaching women so when the time comes to ask a woman for her phone number, it won’t be as difficult to do.
If you can learn how not to be afraid of rejection, then you increase your chances of having success with women by a long shot. Keep in mind that when you’re practicing these techniques, you shouldn’t only try to approach beautiful women. Ask a woman where the nearest bank is or where the nearest grocery store is. You’d be amazed at the responses and some of these women will even start up conversations with you!
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A lot of people wonder whether pickup lines can be helpful when you approach women, and if they actually get you laid. Yet when we hear the expression “pickup line,” we tend to envision some sleazy guy sporting a gold chain across his hairy chest. He’s prowling the bar or club, ready to approach women, his beady eyes scanning the room for his next target.
He approaches a woman…eyes her up and down, like a hungry jackal eyeballing a slab of meat…and delivers a cheesy pick up line that causes her to roll her eyes (or throw her drink in his face).
I’m talking about pick up lines like these…
“I sure hope you know CPR, because you take my breath away.”
“Can I borrow a quarter? [What for?] I want to call my mom and tell her I just met the woman of my dreams.”
“Hey, can I borrow a map? Because I keep getting lost in your eyes.”
“Somebody better call God, cuz he’s missing an angel — so what time do you have to be back in heaven?”
“Sorry lady, but you owe me a drink. [Why?] Because when I looked at you, I dropped mine.”
“I’m new in town — could I get directions to your apartment?”
“I play the field, and it looks like I just hit a home run with you.”
“If I followed you home, would you keep me?”
“Is there an airport nearby or is that just my heart taking off?”
“I was so mesmerized by your beauty that I ran into that wall over there…I’m going to need your name and number for insurance purposes.”
You actually CAN use a funny pick up line to approach ladies, and not all of them are that lame. I’ll give you a few examples of cute pick up lines that I’ve successfully used to approach women. The key is to follow them up with something more clever (I’ll give you some of these “transitions” in a minute).
“Wouldn’t we look cute on a wedding cake together?”
“Do you know karate? Because your body is really kickin’.”
“Your daddy must have been a baker, because you’ve got a nice set of buns.”
“You must be a hell of a thief, because you stole my heart from across the room.”
(Note: Don’t use this pick up line on women who are extremely hot and KNOW it. This one is effective on a girl who is attractive, but is clearly NOT the best-looking girl in the place.)
Now here’s the next type of pick up lines. I call these…
Pick Up Lines That Could Get You Slapped In The Face
You’ll want to be extremely cautious when using the following lines when you approach women. While they might get an amused reaction (especially if she’s a drunken nymphomaniac), you’re equally likely to get hit. (Especially if her boyfriend the UFC fighter happens to be standing nearby.) Use them with caution…
“Do you know what has 142 teeth and holds back the Incredible Hulk? [What?] My zipper.”
“That outfit would look great…in a crumpled heap next to my bed.”
“That’s a nice set of legs, what time do they open?”
The Reality About Using Pick Up Lines To Approach Girls
So are pick up lines something to be mocked? Would any REAL pick up artist deign to use them? I’ve written several popular books on how to pick up women, and I’ve taught thousands of guys how to “break the ice” with women and seduce them with effective conversation. And personally, I think pick up lines are usually way too obvious.
I normally recommend that you use the “under the radar” style of opening conversations. This means you use a clever, unexpected question or comment to catch her interest and engage her in the interaction WITHOUT signaling that you like her. Essentially, you’re “breaking the ice” in a way that feels natural and casual.
I like to approach the girl and ask her a clever question, one that females are naturally going to have an opinion about.
Opener #1: “Hey, I have to get back to my friends but let me ask you something real quick — would you freak out if your boyfriend was invited to a bachelor party and you knew there would be strippers at the party? My friend Samantha asked me for my opinion.”
Opener #2: “Hey, help me settle a debate I’m having with my friends. How long do you need to be dating someone before you change your status on Facebook from “single” to “in a relationship?” Because my friend Jennifer has been going out with a guy for a month and SHE thinks it’s an exclusive thing, but he hasn’t changed his “single” status and she’s wondering if she should say something…”
These openers are especially effective because they’re based on what I call “relationship grey areas.” Men and women tend to have their own ideas about what’s allowed in a relationship, and what is unacceptable. Here’s another line you can use when you approach women: “does it count as cheating if a guy has lunch with his ex-girlfriend, and doesn’t tell his new girlfriend about it?”
When you approach a woman, your goal with the opening line is to get a positive response that makes her want to talk to you further. Here’s another line I use to approach women, which always seems to get a good reaction:
“Do I look gay? Because this guy was TOTALLY hitting on me in the men’s room a minute ago. Be honest, is it my shirt?” (Or, “is it the way my butt looks in these jeans?”)
I wouldn’t classify those as pick up lines. But I’m not saying you should NEVER use a corny pick up line when you are approaching women.
I’ve actually used some of the pick up lines I mentioned above to approach women, and they sparked a conversation and got me the result I wanted — which means I scored her phone number, or hooked up with her that night).
I showed a sense of humor by “confessing” that I had used a corny line to try to pick her up. After I said it, I followed up with “I realize that probably sounded like a pick up line…but I want to talk to you for a second and I couldn’t think of what else to say. By the way, you can call me Dean…”
At that stage, I used my Mack Tactics — I asked a few “strategic” questions to get her in a fun mindset, and sharing information about herself…I used techniques like “Cold Reads” and “Hypotheticals”… and throughout the conversation, I managed the flow and hit the right buttons to make her feel curiosity and attraction.
The reality is, you can get away with using a corny pick up line and actually make women laugh (in a good way). It’s all about knowing how to transition into the conversation, and never taking yourself too seriously.
And hey, this one has worked for me more than once…
“You’re so cute that you made me forget my pick up line.”
(Women always find that one cute and funny!)
Now, before I explain how to FOLLOW UP and get her to start feeling curiosity and attraction, I should warn you about something…
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